Unf*ck Your Polyamory

Improving your non-monogamy and unlearning the monogamy mindset

Unf*ck Your Polyamory

Ever wonder why your polyamory isn’t going as smoothly as you’d like? Wanna make sure you're not a jerk when you're doing this whole polyam thing?

Navigate your relationships like a pro with best practices to both communicate your needs and be receptive to those of your partners.

You've found a name for what you want. You know there’s a community of like-minded people out there waiting for you. But when it’s time to find and engage with them, what are you expected to know? How are you expected to act? How can you interact with a culture while still being your authentic self?

So many of our early polyamorous experiences were marred with poor communication and mishaps inspired by the modeling we’ve received from society. Our parents, pop culture, and even previous monogamous relationships have us wired for relationship skills that don’t often fit in polyamory.

If you’re new to polyamory or an old hat still working out the kinks, this is the course for you!

Learn the skills you need to grow your confidence, communication, and ultimately love.

So what is Unf*ck Your Polyamory about?

You’ll learn how to set your expectations both before and after you meet the people you want to date. You’ll learn how to navigate jealousy, compersion, and relationships with your metamours. Most importantly, you’ll learn how to listen and treat your partners respectfully.

This 6-week course will give you easy, guided practice to put your skills into practice right away. You’ll get enough information in each 90-minute session to go out into the real world and implement what you’re learning. You’ll see immediate changes in your life as your courage grows and your actions empower others to craft their own relationships!

In just six weeks, you can be well on your way to leaving behind a life of lonely, awkward, unsatisfying experiences.

The understanding and literacy you’ll gain from finding and using your voice is truly priceless!

Sign up for the class bundle now for just $99 and you’ll get all six classes

  • Six 90-minute webinars, starting May 13th, with Kevin and Dr. Liz covering the building blocks of non-monogamous relationships
  • Handouts and worksheets each to help you put theory into practice
  • Real-world practice exercises so you can start living your authentic life and finding your best relationships

Sign up now!

Think you’re going to need extra help? Add weekly email support to your course for just $150!

Course dates:

Polyamory 101: May 13th, 9pm eastern/6pm pacific

Boundaries: May 20th, 9pm eastern/6pm pacific

Couple Privilege: May 27th, 9pm eastern/6pm pacific

Jealousy and Compersion: June 3rd, 9pm eastern/6pm pacific

Metamours: June 10th, 9pm eastern/6pm pacific

Power Dynamics: June 17th, 9pm eastern/6pm pacific

All courses will take place live on Zoom.


Your Instructor


Kevin Patterson
Kevin Patterson

Kevin Patterson is an active member of the Philadelphia polyamory community. He's been practicing ethical nonmonogamy since August of 2002 after opening up a relationship that eventually became his marriage.

In April of 2015, Kevin was inspired to start Poly Role Models, an interview series for people describing their experiences with polyamory. Poly Role Models is part of a drive and a desire to change the way our lives and communities are viewed. It is currently the most diverse and inclusive platform for polyamory available.

To continue the discussion of polyamorous representation, Kevin has extended the blog's work into nationwide speaking engagements about how race and polyamory intersect. This has led to the writing of the book, Love's Not Color Blind: Race and Representation in Polyamorous and Other Alternative Communities. Along with co-writer Alana Phelan, Kevin launched a sci-fi novel series, For Hire. The series centers characters of color and as well as other marginalized identities.



Course Curriculum


  Week 1 - POLYAMORY 101
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  Week 2 - BOUNDARIES
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  Week 3 - COUPLE PRIVILEGE
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  Week 4 - JEALOUSY & COMPERSION
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  Week 5 - METAMOURS
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Courses Included with Purchase



Unf*ck Your Polyamory: Polyamory 101
Understanding the Basics
Dr. Liz Powell and Kevin Patterson, M.Ed.
Unf*ck Your Polyamory: Boundaries
Setting Standards to Protect Yourself and Your Relationship
Dr. Liz Powell and Kevin Patterson, M.Ed.
Unf*ck Your Polyamory: Couple Privilege
Learning How Being Coupled Impacts New Relationships
Dr. Liz Powell and Kevin Patterson, M.Ed.
Unf*ck Your Polyamory: Jealousy and Communication
Navigating the Most Common Drawbacks
Dr. Liz Powell and Kevin Patterson, M.Ed.
Unf*ck Your Polyamory: Metamours
Dr. Liz Powell and Kevin Patterson, M.Ed.
Unf*ck Your Polyamory: Power Dynamics
Staying Aware of Societal Influences
Dr. Liz Powell and Kevin Patterson, M.Ed.

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Frequently Asked Questions


When does the course start and finish?
The course starts now and never ends! It is a completely self-paced online course - you decide when you start and when you finish.
How long do I have access to the course?
Recordings of the course will be available to all who enroll for up to a week after the entire course is run. If you'd like unlimited access to this course (for as long as you like - across any and all devices you own) please reach out to us. We're asking for a **suggested and optional** donation of $20 but only of you've got the funds to be able to give it freely.
What if I am unhappy with the course?
We would never want you to be unhappy! If you are unsatisfied with your purchase, contact us in the first 30 days and we will give you a full refund.

This course is closed for enrollment.